Looking to get laid after a divorce? Some marriages are sex free and dating changes with each passing day let alone years! Getting out there and getting it on with new people isn't easy. This show we learn about getting "d" after the "big d"

Liz McIrvin is a director, photographer and comedian. Liz was married before she turned 20 and after years of realizing her partner was not the one she would be with forever, they divorced. She gives hosts, @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas a guide to getting "the d" after the "big d". She also answers caller Barry’s big d question- How to get back out there when you were in a sexless marriage and after the divorce and have a long dry spell.

The story has a happy ending as Liz talks us through her present day love life that is full of communication and lots of lovin!

Keeley Shoup is a Cuddle Therapist who specializes in non-sexual, platonic, physical intimacy and affection like hugging, spooning, holding, nuzzling, cradling, and cuddling. She chats with hosts @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas about cuddle parties and how they aren’t some sweaty orgy, but a supportive and kind event to connect with other adults. Keeley also talks about how a cuddle session isn’t just for the lonely and asexual, but for everyone. She goes on to teach Greenberry, Kerstin, and listeners how to ask for consent, not just for cuddling but for sex and other physical touch, and she makes it sexy!


Keeley also helps out a caller, Fiona, who wants her friend to be more than just a friend. She wants him to be a cuddle buddy while still keeping their relationship platonic but creating space for cuddle sessions.

Melanie LaForce is in an open marriage.


When she's not busy writing, telling jokes and being a DR ( which we never really talk about). She gives hosts, @WhoKerstin and @GreenberryLucas the inside scoop of what goes on in her bedroom and in the bedrooms she goes into with full consent of her husband. Her marriage is open and she is open to talking about it! Dr.LaForce also answers a listener's question about if her friend is trying to add her to his open marriage mix.

Cameron enjoys butt stuff, anal sex, tossing salad, spanking… Basically he likes booties. From a young age he knew he was an ass man aka he was attracted to all women’s butts. He shares his stories with hosts @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas about playing around to find out what being an ass man really meant to him and to his partners. He also discovered he enjoys being submissive but he tends to be a Pleasure Dom who enjoys vocal feedback. Kerstin and Greenberry learn a lot and find themselves giving him vocal feedback, but not in the moaning form.


Cameron also helps out a young adult caller, Gary, with how to attract women.

Queen Freya will have you bending the knee!


Queen Freya dominated the ABF hosts and had them enthralled by her subjects. She taught Greenberry and Kirsten about cages for male genitals, men who love to pay you to clean your home, and men who just love to pay you!


When Hank called in, he worried if his fetish to go from Chef Boyardee to Chef BoyarME was too weird (it involves dough, and a hot car!). Freya shamelessly shared how normal and achievable his objectification fetish is and gave him tips on how to bring his wife into his clever playful world!

In this episode the Adult Buddy Finders (@GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter) ask their buddies about dirty talk, faking orgasms and how to win back that lovin' feeling in a long term relationship/ marriage when the love seems to have faded away.


To celebrate their first 10,000 Facebook pages likes. The ABFs went live and battled technical difficulties to connect to their buddies including, Kyle who faked an orgasm; Ron who believes two high sex drives make for a match made in heaven; Grant who wanted advice for his marriage and more. The hosts also shared their answers to questions posed to them from the people who helped make the show what is today, you!

Lauren is a comedian, actor and writer who explored sex and relationships after reading “The Ethical Slut” and getting divorced. She takes hosts, @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas on her journey into polyamory. She is very new, still learning and not in a relationship so she is what is known as, "Baby Solo Poly". Lauren takes a call from a shy Sara who is seeking to connect with fellow polyamorous people. Lauren shares poly friendly websites, dating apps and terminology like #ENM.

Rachel Music describes BDSM to naïve hosts, Greenberry Lucas and Kerstin Porter. She reveals code words, what a sub/dom session entails and how to find a dominatrix whether you're a submissive, switch, or just curious. (It’s a lot more versatile than spanking, bondage and sex.)


Rachel is no longer dominating, at least not sexually. She is dominating narrating erotic alien novels (search her name on Audible for her narrations), producing, writing, and being a multidisciplinary artist.


A unicorn is a person who is willing to join an existing couple. Unicorns are rare, mythical, and hard-to-find creatures. Natasha is also a unique comedian and professional talent recruiter.


She helps Kerstin Porter and Greenberry Lucas understand what a unicorn is and how to find and keep one happy once you've found your unicorn. Natasha also talks to, "Mix It Up Mike" who wanted to ensure his identity was disguised but question his was direct (not as direct as his wife pegging him while he watches his favorite program).

Samantha Jane is a comedian and a weed expert but on this show, she tells us all about OnlyFans. Sam shares with hosts, Greenberry Lucas and Kerstin Porter, what it’s like to be a sexy adult model, content creator, and freelancer on the social media site, OnlyFans. She talks about how she loves having the control over her own sexual content and how much naked skin she shows in pics and videos. Sam also talks with caller, Dan the OnlyFans fan, about how to impress an OnlyFans model and what type of a relationship you can have with a model.

Currently Lin leaves folks happy with her stand-up but on this show, she takes us to her massage days. She gives hosts, Kerstin Porter and Greenberry Lucas massage envy and shares code words to find your own happiness and even how to maybe spot a cop. Lin also answers listeners' most asked questions and helps sort out caller Dale’s dilemma, although we are still not sure if Dale is in fact a cop.